Charlene Said:

Choosing your mother over your fiance?

We Answered:

soap is right in that this is a preview of what to expect in the future. what you two need to do is start thinking about the two of you and tell your families to butt out..

they will either respect your opinion or they won't, but they will have to get over it. or not. your marriage and kids will just make them more critical so get used to it. thank them for their ASKED-FOR opinion and learn how to politely cut them off. they think they are the experts and they know everything you should do so expect that too..

Realize the old saying that "when you get married you don't just marry a person, you marry the whole family".

If you don't put a stop to your suffering now you can expect it to get worse in the future.